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Est. Houghton, August 2026 — on a branch, in Sharpie

Most totems are bad.

A totem exists so five people on a dark dance floor can find each other. That is a low bar and yet. So many flags that just say PARTY CENTRAL. We can do better, and the button below has 11 billion opinions on how.

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Field notes

Seven totems, observed under real conditions. Houghton, August 2026. The full accounts live at /girlstrip, behind a password — which should tell you something about the accounts.

  1. A banana shaker

    Jenn

    You will first think it's just a percussion instrument. Or banana without purpose. It is actually a screening tool: bring it out, and the people who immediately play along with it are your people. The people who don't, aren't. It has never once been wrong. Secondary use: pointed forward in a single-file crush, it is regularly mistaken for a snake, and the crowd parts.

    Worked

  2. A large fuzzy white hat

    Karen

    Worn on the one cold night purely to be findable. Someone later navigated back across a dance floor by it without being told to.

    Load-bearing

  3. A branch, a mini banana, a fall-risk bracelet

    Chase

    Assembled during a beer run entirely from found materials, then signed in Sharpie by committee. Became this website.

    Worked

  4. A shirt covered in words

    Elaine

    Read and quietly tracked by strangers for three days, one of whom had been crossing the words off as they happened. Ended in a gift and a tattoo plan.

    Worked

  5. No object whatsoever

    Karen

    A theatrical stomp, belly and pelvis jutted at the treeline, performed with total commitment. Produced one friend within minutes and an entire group of Scots inside the hour.

    Worked twice, then depleted

  6. Nothing at all

    A man at lunch

    Carried no phone, took no photographs, and when asked how he planned to find the people he came with, shrugged and said he knew he'd manage it eventually.

    Unfalsifiable

  7. An official MEETING POINT sign

    Norfolk

    A permanent, weatherproof, professionally lettered solution to this exact problem, installed at public expense.

    Zero recorded successes